When I started graduate school, I didn鈥檛 believe that I was intelligent.听
Sure, I was a hard worker and productive.听But I did not see myself as intellectually stimulating. I could never be as interesting and thought-provoking as my professors, I thought.听This belief was one听major roadblock to my success.听听
I did not need any outward change to my work habits.听Instead, I needed to change my听mindset. I had to force myself to write and think how a courageous and confident person would write and think.听
When I went to my office to write, I repeated in my head over and over again: 鈥淵ou enjoy writing, and others enjoy reading your work. You are smart and a good writer." Even though I didn鈥檛 believe it at first, I forced myself to think that way and write that way.听This was听an ongoing听process, not an overnight transformation.听
Eventually, I started to internalize this mantra and gain the belief that I was indeed just as worthy as anyone else to be in graduate school.
You can do this, too. Begin writing a new story. Eschew the old story of听someone who is less than worthy.听 Embrace the听story of听someone who has abundant success. Before too long, your new-found confidence will breed productive creativity.
How do you create a confident mindset? Take 15-30 minutes each morning and听follow听the six steps below.听
Six Steps to Develop a Positive Mindset Around Writing
- Stop yourself from thinking negative thoughts
Every time you find yourself listing reasons to quit, reliving failures or thinking negative thoughts, stop yourself by focusing on your breathing. Take 5 minutes听to replace your negative thoughts听with good thoughts and beliefs. can help with this.听
- Relive your successes
Remember that awesome poster presentation you did last year (or, in 6th grade)? What about that stellar blog post you wrote last week? Re-read your admissions letter from 精品SM在线影片 and remember that you are here because people believed in you.
Remember the small successes, too: Did you meet with your adviser? Organize your calendar? Read the introduction and conclusion of a book (because let鈥檚 be real . . . who has time to read the whole book these days)? Do your laundry? Everything counts.
- Repeat your expectations
Here are some examples of expectation mantras:
- Imagine your persona
When I did this, I felt like an actor getting into character. I wasn't saying these things as affirmations, but I was figuratively "getting into the head" of someone with abundance in success with writing. I forced myself to believe that people enjoyed reading my writing, even though in the beginning I knew that wasn't the case. Slowly this understanding of my writing ability became more real for me. Here are examples of persona phrases:
- Envision success
Close your eyes and imagine yourself celebrating your end goal, such as a publishing party, a graduation party or people getting excited about your ideas.
- Join a graduate group on campus.
Graduate school is different from undergrad. First year grad students especially often enter听having only experienced academic success. They听may suddeny find themselves on the bottom of the academic totem pole. Not only that, but they are balancing multiple projects and life responsibilities on top of teaching, writing and designing research projects.
This fall, the Graduate School is offering a weekly seminar devoted to first and second year grad students called 鈥�Getting Started.鈥� If you find yourself needing a little extra support outside of your lab or cohort, consider joining us every Friday from noon to 1 p.m. in CASE W311 starting on August 30th. In addition to learning how to get in the mindset of听successful graduate students, we will be covering topics such as:
For more information, contact Sarah Tynen at gradprofdev@colorado.edu. Check out the Graduate School鈥檚 website for all of our听professional development opportunities.