4 tips to improve your social media feeds
Social media has a lot of benefits: it鈥檚 a place where we can keep up with friends, make plans and hear about events. However, it can also become a source of stress and anxiety.
As 2020 continues to unfold, we may feel more stress and anxiety than usual, between the pandemic, the election, the fight for racial justice and our usual social feeds. Here are some tips to help you navigate social media in a positive way.
Check your accounts
Do you know how many accounts you have online? Once you start looking at all of your social accounts, you may realize you have more than you thought. Social media is built into many of our favorite apps: Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, Reddit, TikTok 鈥 the list goes on. Take a moment to look at what kinds of social media accounts you have, and reflect on how you use them. Ask yourself:
- What do I do while I鈥檓 on this app?
- Does it bring me joy, laughter, stress, anger?
- Does it add value to my life? How?
- Am I making meaningful connections here?
Social media accounts should be a place where you find connection, relief and feel uplifted. If you find that your social platforms are missing the mark, consider getting rid of them or use them less frequently. Unsure about deleting an account? See if you can deactivate it instead. This will temporarily remove your profile from the site without losing your account entirely. If you find that you miss it, you can always re-activate it later on.
Hit unfollow
Who do you follow on social? Whether you follow close friends and family or celebrities and meme accounts, it鈥檚 important to know who you鈥檙e following and why. Take a look at the accounts you follow and ask yourself:
- Am I seeing posts that make me feel unhappy or put me in a bad mood regularly?
- Does this account make me feel like I need to be someone I鈥檓 not?
- Am I comparing my life, body or success with others?
If you answered yes to any of these questions, it may be time to unfollow. If you鈥檙e worried about unfollowing an account altogether, try hiding them from your feed instead. Hiding negative content from your view can help you feel a sense of relief and will free up space for accounts that make you feel good.
Pause before you post
Practical jokes and funny photos with friends can make for entertaining social posts, but they may have a larger impact down the line. Many employers check social media profiles during the hiring process, and they may look back further than you鈥檇 think. Group accounts and even those that aren鈥檛 directly tied to you (think finsta) can have a negative impact in the future. Before you post, ask yourself:
- Will posting this positively or negatively impact my life down the road?
- How will it impact other people (e.g. those in the photo/video)?
- Am I breaking any rules, policies, ordinances or laws?
If the answers to these questions are largely negative, skip the share button. You鈥檒l still have the memory to look back on.
Take a break
If you find yourself on social throughout the day, it may be time for a mini vacation. Taking a mental break from social can help you disconnect from your feed and reconnect with your real life. One way to decrease your time on social accounts is to designate phone-free spaces. For instance, you may decide that your schoolwork areas are a phone-free zone. This could include your classrooms, study spaces or desk. By keeping your phone out of reach, you may find that you鈥檙e able to focus more on class (it has also been shown to improve grades and performance on tests). Connecting with friends is another great way to take a break from social and focus on the people you鈥檙e with. If you need extra help unplugging, try these tips:
- Move social apps off of your home screen. Having an extra step can reduce the urge to open the app as soon as you get on your phone.
- If an app doesn鈥檛 spark joy for you, consider deleting it.
- Set a timer for 20-30 minutes while you鈥檙e studying or working on a project. Avoid using your phone until the timer goes off. You can also use apps like to earn rewards for staying off your phone or make pacts with friends using , which limits your app use at certain times during the day.
- Use 鈥渄o not disturb鈥 mode. If you hear a tone or vibration from every notification, you鈥檙e more likely to pick up your phone. Silencing notifications can help you stay focused during the day and improve your sleep at night.
- Try using social media as a way to plan face-to-face interactions. Even using it to schedule time to connect over video can help us create more meaningful connections.
- Talk to your friends or family about what you see on social and how it affects you. Discuss what you like, don鈥檛 like and what you might like to see change. Take the lead to make social media a more positive experience for you and your friends.
If you are struggling or having a difficult time coping with anxiety, depression, stress or social, Counseling and Psychiatric Services (CAPS) is here to help. They offer free screening appointments for all undergrad and graduate students. Screening appointments are used to develop personalized plans, which can include therapy groups, workshops, community providers, short-term individual therapy and psychiatry or a combination of these services.